Yo Im havin a trust problem wiv my girl right now.im a 24yr old male frm the UK. My girl is 21. we bin 2gether for like 5/6yrs now. The problem is in 2002 i was sentenced 2 3andhalfyrs in prison of which i did 18months.

Whilst i was away my girl use 2 cum visit and shit but a few months dwn the line she stopped, but i still use 2keep in touch everyday via mail,phone. When i got out we moved in 2gether and 2-3 months later she was pregnant.(my son is 12 months old now) but a few months ago i found she fukd my mate not once but twice and also she woz goin out wiv sum other dude!!! now i dnt knw wot 2 do, fair enuff she woz young then, only 17, and naive.I understand how
lonely and shit she must b and needed sum1 there but i jus dnt knw wot 2 do cuz i really do care bout her and i dnt want 2 lose my son either.

she says she loves me and only me but if that was tru y she play me like that?? U knw wot i mean? i feel so ashamed and embrassed like evey1 is laffin at me. I mean frm a female perspective wot do u think i should do?i cant cut all links off wiv her cuz of my son who means the world 2 me but then again i feel so betrayed that i jus feel like walkin away.i dnt think i could ever trust her agian so is there really any point of me bein wiv her?i dnt knw man, please help. thankz.

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I have a boyfriend and weve been going out for a little more that 7 months but i rarely get to see him. i love him so much. i see him like twice a month and i wanna stay with him but i cant handle it. and also, im sort of like a virgin and im scared to have sex with him but he said he aint gonna rush me either. he said hell wait

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Dear Dominique,

While doing a Google search for lost relatives I discovered a number of gang-related hits (one that led me to your homepage) that contained my last name!

Why are Cripps or Bloods using my family name: Czup?

What does it mean to them?

Since I don't belong to a street gang I don't like my family name being associated with organized crime, do you suppose my only recourse is some kind of civil litigation? And where would I even start?

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Hey Girl,
I am having a lot of problems with boys! Every boy I like they either have a girlfriend or say that I am ugly. I am 15 and haven't had a boyfriend yet! I am very shy. When I go to school I see all the couples kissing and I get upset and want to be in that position. What can I do to get a boyfriend?

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man i got female problems well theres this gurl and she's special there sumtin about her that makes her different from all the rest and i really like her and i know she likes me but the problem is she's my bestfriend's gurl and i wouldn't do him dirty by snatchin her from him but if he breaks up with her because that's how it was meant to be is it koo if i take her then???

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Hi Dominique,i am a 18 year-old boy livin in italy. since i was a child i have been interested in the usa,i started lovin ur country but just as a dream.Then as a teen i discovered hip hop n tupac whose music made me feel emotions that i never felt in italy.I started lookin for informations about everything about the us n hip hop ,my passion for usa turned into obsession( i feel like a boy too far from his real home).I understood that all i like is in usa:music,hip hop , meltin pot,culture,history, cities,skycrapers,black lifestyle(not violent lifestyle,u know wat im sayin?),landscapes,american pride n love.It's hard to explain n to understand but i feel american.
Here all my problems started:i went to cali last summer n my love to usa increased.I told my parents i would move to america after graduatin n they told me that i could go there to study.

1)I ache for anxiety n stress n i can't do my best if im under pressure(i have to finish high school if i want to move to usa) so i stopped studyin scared to fail but if i don't study i won't go anywhere.

2)i have problems wit my friends who r superficial n stupid(they r all rich ppl n have no matters). i wanted to break up wit em cuz they laughed about my mother(she had serious mental problems after the pregnancy n is still under medicines),n about my family(my uncle is a lil insane n stole things in the prestigious club where me n my friends belong),but i didn't brak up cuz i couldn't stay alone

I started datin sometimes a old friend of mine who understands me but smokes weed so i started smokin weed too.my friends ,as they realized i smoked,started treatin me as a drug fiend(not all my friends r bad ppl).I prefer smokin weed than stayin wit racist superficial n snobbish ppl but i can't leave my friends so i got to bear them treatin me as a drug fiend.I date ppl i wouldn't feel like datin but im scared of stayin alone.i would like to find some1 who understands me cuz i really feel unique in da world.

3)If i could go to usa for a study trip how could i be able to get the green card to remain in the united states foreva?I wanna live there ,i wanna live as an american boy,i gotta visit a lot of places, i gotta discover a lot of feelings,.I gotta reach my mind's home.

I really feel unique in dis world n my pessimism about my future is turnin into certainty of flop. I hope u will understand my feelings n give me some good advices.

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Hi Dominique. I am a 15 year old guy from Connecticut. I recently 2 weeks ago jus got out of a 2 year relationship with my girlfriend. We both have moved on and that is why i need your help. I met a different gitl and now i have been dating her for 5 days. I met her about 2 years ago and we never really talked. I am hear because i am sure of what not to do. I have heard from people that she has hepatitas C. She got it from her mom when she was pregnant i am pretty sure. I was just wondering what i should do and what i should not do. I am really stressed out because I like this girl a real lot but i dont want to end up with hepatitas. I have not talked to her about it yet but i do not kno what to do. If you kuld please give me some guidance i would be very grateful. Ok but i will talk to u later thank u so much for reading. If u hav a myspace u kan reach me also at.......

thx

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hey ms.d my name iz snoopy and dis iz a female so may i ask u why did u get in2 all this gang stuff like y did u want 2 learn about it

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Dear Dominique,
My best friend of 5 years is engaged to marry her boyfriend of 4 years. She says she loves him dearly and cannot imagine the rest of her life without him. She was my maid of honor at my wedding and she wants me to be in hers too. So I am helping her plan her wedding.
At the same time - she is also with another man anytime she is not with her fiance. They go out on dates, they have sex, they do the sweet sappy love letters and text messages to each other. He even bought her a star for christmas and spent another $300 on her for a spa treatment package. She says that she loves guyB dearly and cannot imagine the rest of her life without him. So I am stuck in the middle of helping her plan her wedding with guyA while she is also in love with guyB. She says she wishes she could just have them both and not have to make a decision. She says she knows its wrong but she just can't stop - "when I'm with guyB I just can't tell him no". What is a best friend to do? I can't tell her anything - she won't hear it. I tried to tell her that I don't want to be a part of it anymore - that I can't sit down with her and help her plan her wedding while she is also telling me about being with this other man. But after telling her that - she doesn't want to be friends anymore. She says I'm judging her - and abandoning her and that I'm just a fairweather friend. I don't know what else to do - it breaks my heart to see her do this to herself and to her loved one(s). Should I just chalk this up to a friend lost?

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I am having some relationship prblems.. My boyfriend
is 22 and I'm 14. We have been going out for 2 years
now and I have yet to meet him face to face. Most of
my friends think I am crazy and are telling me to stop
in case something bad happens to me but I love him too
much to actuall break up with him. What do I do? I
don't want to get hurt but I don't want to leave him
either. I am truely stuck!

Please help me!

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