why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

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Postby EmperorPenguin » August 29th, 2007, 2:45 pm

Lonewolf wrote:
KINGFEAR62 wrote:. . . "or a woman hug and kiss another woman" . . .


I'm all for that . . . especially if they invite me for a threesome ~> I would be a happy man for the rest of my life :D :D :D


It's funny, I've found that most people who hate homosexuals are all gung-ho for lesbian sex, especially if it's filmed for their viewing. I think most people who are all up in arms about homosexuals really just can't get past 2 gay men doing....whatever. I don't find it visually pleasing but then again I don't like seeing 2 ugly people go at it either. I could care less mind you and I don't make it my business to know their business so whatever makes consenting adults happy go for it.
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Postby Christina Marie » August 29th, 2007, 3:35 pm

KINGFEAR62 wrote:Being a homo is wrong how can a man hug and kiss another man or a woman hug and kiss another woman its nasty and sick then u have homos wanting to get married in gods house (church) and wanna raise kids every year the world get worst what kind of parent tells a kids its ok to be gay to me being gay is sick and wrong


Thats fine that you dont approve of it but why do you have to hate? Hating is against the Lords word as much as homosexuality. And yes lets try to get this thread back on track please. Sorry
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby ogilmore » May 3rd, 2009, 8:48 am

I think spanking kids is more an issue of ethnicity rather than race. I would say that wasps dont spank their kids. However, irish people do spank their kids. I got hit and so did all my friends on a regular basis. It didnt do any harm and I have good manners as a result.
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby razbojnik » May 17th, 2009, 4:34 pm

ogilmore wrote:I think spanking kids is more an issue of ethnicity rather than race. I would say that wasps dont spank their kids. However, irish people do spank their kids. I got hit and so did all my friends on a regular basis. It didnt do any harm and I have good manners as a result.


I got slapped around when I wasn't supposed to and didn't get slapped when I was supposed to, as a result I'm a little fucked in the head and a lost cause.

This is good parenting



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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby CheGuevara » May 25th, 2009, 4:40 pm

KINGFEAR62 wrote:I know there's a few white people on this forum and I just wanted to know why white people never spank/beat there kids no matter what they do I've seen little white kids acting crazy in stores and there parents just sit there talking calmly to the child and most times the child just ignores them I don't understand why white people don't spank there kids


depends on which white people you are talking about. most white people are advanced (germans, americans, british) economically and such. but white people from the balkans or the former soviet union countries spank their kids. many over even tiny infractions. it all has to do with the way they were raised. america is not a violent country, therefore americans developed a non-violent approach to their kids.
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby Dobre » May 29th, 2009, 9:17 pm

CheGuevara wrote:
KINGFEAR62 wrote:I know there's a few white people on this forum and I just wanted to know why white people never spank/beat there kids no matter what they do I've seen little white kids acting crazy in stores and there parents just sit there talking calmly to the child and most times the child just ignores them I don't understand why white people don't spank there kids


depends on which white people you are talking about. most white people are advanced (germans, americans, british) economically and such. but white people from the balkans or the former soviet union countries spank their kids. many over even tiny infractions. it all has to do with the way they were raised. america is not a violent country, therefore americans developed a non-violent approach to their kids.


Exactly. Spank isn't the right word, more like they beat the fuck out of you until you bleed from all holes.
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby Azure9920 » May 30th, 2009, 9:42 am

American's aren't violent. lol
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby Dobre » May 30th, 2009, 7:08 pm

Azure9920 wrote:American's aren't violent. lol


They aren't by nature. This is why Americans shit themselves at the thought of Al Qaeda(gypsies with water guns) and would've given Bush a million blowjobs just so he would guarentee their safety. In America civilian wise they might act like smart asses on their own turf and even invading gypsy countries like Albania but when it comes to military threats on American soil Americans will commit suicide by accident panicking in fear, they're cowards like that. I know from personal experiance, you can laugh all you want, if my dad yells at you you'll shit yourself. Usually the people provoking him have thought the same, first they've taken him as a joke and then when he started with the real shit they shit a sack of bricks. This is why a black thug ran away from him holding a gun in his hand and my dad was unarmed...because it's very violent there indeed.

There's a difference between being violent for personal amusement and fun(Americans/Canadians) and being violent because you have to in order to save your own life(people here).
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby Azure9920 » May 30th, 2009, 8:27 pm

Dobre wrote:
Azure9920 wrote:American's aren't violent. lol


They aren't by nature. This is why Americans shit themselves at the thought of Al Qaeda(gypsies with water guns) and would've given Bush a million blowjobs just so he would guarentee their safety. In America civilian wise they might act like smart asses on their own turf and even invading gypsy countries like Albania but when it comes to military threats on American soil Americans will commit suicide by accident panicking in fear, they're cowards like that. I know from personal experiance, you can laugh all you want, if my dad yells at you you'll shit yourself. Usually the people provoking him have thought the same, first they've taken him as a joke and then when he started with the real shit they shit a sack of bricks. This is why a black thug ran away from him holding a gun in his hand and my dad was unarmed...because it's very violent there indeed.

There's a difference between being violent for personal amusement and fun(Americans/Canadians) and being violent because you have to in order to save your own life(people here).


Just shut up...please.
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby Dobre » May 31st, 2009, 7:53 pm

Azure9920 wrote:
Dobre wrote:
Azure9920 wrote:American's aren't violent. lol


They aren't by nature. This is why Americans shit themselves at the thought of Al Qaeda(gypsies with water guns) and would've given Bush a million blowjobs just so he would guarentee their safety. In America civilian wise they might act like smart asses on their own turf and even invading gypsy countries like Albania but when it comes to military threats on American soil Americans will commit suicide by accident panicking in fear, they're cowards like that. I know from personal experiance, you can laugh all you want, if my dad yells at you you'll shit yourself. Usually the people provoking him have thought the same, first they've taken him as a joke and then when he started with the real shit they shit a sack of bricks. This is why a black thug ran away from him holding a gun in his hand and my dad was unarmed...because it's very violent there indeed.

There's a difference between being violent for personal amusement and fun(Americans/Canadians) and being violent because you have to in order to save your own life(people here).


Just shut up...please.


No!
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby whiskeyjack » June 1st, 2009, 5:17 am

There's a difference between being violent for personal amusement and fun(Americans/Canadians) and being violent because you have to in order to save your own life(people here).


this would require a seperate thread, and i think it can be argued both ways
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby Sentenza » June 14th, 2009, 9:13 am

Dobre wrote:
Azure9920 wrote:American's aren't violent. lol


They aren't by nature. This is why Americans shit themselves at the thought of Al Qaeda(gypsies with water guns) and would've given Bush a million blowjobs just so he would guarentee their safety. In America civilian wise they might act like smart asses on their own turf and even invading gypsy countries like Albania but when it comes to military threats on American soil Americans will commit suicide by accident panicking in fear, they're cowards like that. I know from personal experiance, you can laugh all you want, if my dad yells at you you'll shit yourself. Usually the people provoking him have thought the same, first they've taken him as a joke and then when he started with the real shit they shit a sack of bricks. This is why a black thug ran away from him holding a gun in his hand and my dad was unarmed...because it's very violent there indeed.

There's a difference between being violent for personal amusement and fun(Americans/Canadians) and being violent because you have to in order to save your own life(people here).


Goddamn, you really have some hatred for northern Americans hm?
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby yardstick » September 30th, 2009, 9:15 pm

WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAATTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!??!??!?!?!? Every white kid I knew got the shit knocked out them by their parents! Maybe its more of a lower socioeconomic thing then. Cause in my neighborhood, we all got knocked around in back in the day! Black, asian, white, brown.
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby cliffard » October 1st, 2009, 9:50 am

kingfear your way off the mark, i'm white and i used to get righteous licks when i was a kid. not maybe as many as them old school jamaicans give their kids but not far off it. 'spare the rod and spoil the child'
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby Dobre » October 1st, 2009, 10:21 am

Sentenza wrote:
Dobre wrote:
Azure9920 wrote:American's aren't violent. lol


They aren't by nature. This is why Americans shit themselves at the thought of Al Qaeda(gypsies with water guns) and would've given Bush a million blowjobs just so he would guarentee their safety. In America civilian wise they might act like smart asses on their own turf and even invading gypsy countries like Albania but when it comes to military threats on American soil Americans will commit suicide by accident panicking in fear, they're cowards like that. I know from personal experiance, you can laugh all you want, if my dad yells at you you'll shit yourself. Usually the people provoking him have thought the same, first they've taken him as a joke and then when he started with the real shit they shit a sack of bricks. This is why a black thug ran away from him holding a gun in his hand and my dad was unarmed...because it's very violent there indeed.

There's a difference between being violent for personal amusement and fun(Americans/Canadians) and being violent because you have to in order to save your own life(people here).


Goddamn, you really have some hatred for northern Americans hm?


LMFAO nah I love people in this part of the world. Everyone's so nice. I'm serious. There's a huge difference, I noticed now. Coming back from Macedonia after a year and a half...everything seems just so..perfect.

That's minus alcohol, ciggerettes and going out to get laid. I don't feel like paying anybody for either of those here. In Macedonia we have where to go out and get laid, here I'm underaged so anything else Canadian other than a shopping mall won't let me in.
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby bimbolena » February 10th, 2012, 4:09 am

Ohh, some whites do. In england they still beat kids in school I think.

I'm from Sweden, and here it's been illegal to spank and hit kids since before I was born. And people don't do it mostly, white and immigrants.

Why not? Maybe because kids don't deserve to be spanked, humiliated and hurt?

They are childs, beating a grown up I can understand - I would even accept if my future husband spanked me if I do something bad as I'm grown up and should know better. But kids should be talked with and loved.

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Postby doobeez » March 5th, 2012, 7:34 pm

KINGFEAR62 wrote:I'm not talking about abuse I'm talking about laying the law down on ur child. to this day me and my friends laff and joke about the spankings and beatings we got back in the day. lol I remember back when I was in the 6th grade I #%@& around the whole 1st marking peried and failed 3 classes when my mom went to pick up my report card at parent teacher night and saw that I failed 3 classes she gave me a look and I knew I was gonna get it when we got home she gave me the beating of a life time with one of her belts and u better believe the rest of the school year I passed all my classes its cuzz of beatings like that why I finished school and now have a good job




I'm white, and I believe in spanking your children when you feel it's necessary. That's part of the problem today. Most parents seem to be "afraid" to lay down some law to their kids. They want the schools to do it. Well, I got news for ya. The schools do well to teach kids today let alone hand down corporal punishment. Worst whippin i ever got was for the same thing..grades.


I only got five or six in my lifetime, but i deserved and remember every single one of them. It was either the belt, a switch (tree branch with the leaves off of it. stings like son of a bitch. if i got asked to pick mine off the tree, i knew i was really gonna get it. your switch was always too small) or the yardstick.

Shit, when my moms saw two F's on my report card, she broke that damn yardstick over my ass, son.. :lol:

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Postby Quepolo3 » March 7th, 2012, 12:48 am

doobeez wrote:
KINGFEAR62 wrote:I'm not talking about abuse I'm talking about laying the law down on ur child. to this day me and my friends laff and joke about the spankings and beatings we got back in the day. lol I remember back when I was in the 6th grade I #%@& around the whole 1st marking peried and failed 3 classes when my mom went to pick up my report card at parent teacher night and saw that I failed 3 classes she gave me a look and I knew I was gonna get it when we got home she gave me the beating of a life time with one of her belts and u better believe the rest of the school year I passed all my classes its cuzz of beatings like that why I finished school and now have a good job




I'm white, and I believe in spanking your children when you feel it's necessary. That's part of the problem today. Most parents seem to be "afraid" to lay down some law to their kids. They want the schools to do it. Well, I got news for ya. The schools do well to teach kids today let alone hand down corporal punishment. Worst whippin i ever got was for the same thing..grades.


I only got five or six in my lifetime, but i deserved and remember every single one of them. It was either the belt, a switch (tree branch with the leaves off of it. stings like son of a bitch. if i got asked to pick mine off the tree, i knew i was really gonna get it. your switch was always too small) or the yardstick.

@ doobeez- Mane, your mom must have been from the south. My wife is from Cali, and she is black. She was talking that time out garbage, and I had to show her the power of the Whooping. Some may disagree, but I think that it is very effective. I got whooped with switches, belts, paddles and whatever else my mom could get a hold to and swing. It's very common for both white and black parents to spank their children in the south.

Shit, when my moms saw two F's on my report card, she broke that damn yardstick over my ass, son.. :lol:

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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby doobeez » March 7th, 2012, 10:30 am

Que,

Yep, born and raised in south-east Kentucky, and I'd say we might be the only two on here knew what a switch is.. :lol:
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby Christina Marie » May 14th, 2012, 7:40 pm

Violence teaches violence. There are other ways to discipline children than hitting them. I spanked my son 3xs as a child and it was 1x he was 3, almost took off across a street and the 2 others were also for similar behaviors where he would get hurt. Because I didnt spank him often, when I did it made a permanent impression on him. He grew up to be a fine man, great husband and father. Hitting your kids as a means of daily discipline is not going to teach them right from wrong and in fact it teaches them violence is an answer.
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby Christina Marie » May 14th, 2012, 7:44 pm

doobeez wrote:Que,

Yep, born and raised in south-east Kentucky, and I'd say we might be the only two on here knew what a switch is.. :lol:



Switch as in a means to whip ya or switch as in a sexual role? lmao
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby doobeez » June 12th, 2012, 9:42 am

Christina Marie wrote:
doobeez wrote:Que,

Yep, born and raised in south-east Kentucky, and I'd say we might be the only two on here knew what a switch is.. :lol:



Switch as in a means to whip ya or switch as in a sexual role? lmao





Switch as in whippin'..

And get your mind outta the gutter, Christina.. :lol:
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby iboy » July 6th, 2012, 4:04 pm

i got beat up bad by my father and im white so...
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby Christina Marie » July 7th, 2012, 10:47 pm

doobeez wrote:
Christina Marie wrote:
doobeez wrote:Que,

Yep, born and raised in south-east Kentucky, and I'd say we might be the only two on here knew what a switch is.. :lol:



Switch as in a means to whip ya or switch as in a sexual role? lmao





Switch as in whippin'..

And get your mind outta the gutter, Christina.. :lol:



Naw....I like it there
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby Christina Marie » July 7th, 2012, 10:51 pm

iboy wrote:i got beat up bad by my father and im white so...



There is a fine line between discipline and abuse. Unfortunately most ppl don't know where that fine line is. Sorry your dad abused you. Dont do the same to your kids
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Re: why don't white people believe in spanking there kids

Postby doobeez » September 24th, 2012, 6:47 pm

Christina Marie wrote:
iboy wrote:i got beat up bad by my father and im white so...



There is a fine line between discipline and abuse.





This. You love your children, so through that love comes how you discipline them. That's where the old saying "This is gonna hurt me more than it's gonna hurt you.." comes from.


Sorry to hear about what you experienced growing up, iboy. And to further echo what Christina said, don't do the same to your kids.
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