How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/Hoes

These concepts are socially constructed and have been given much weight. What are your thoughts?

Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Common Sense » June 26th, 2004, 8:20 am

Here is a quick question?????

Question for the males on the string......


If you were acting less than stellar, and a woman called you a derogatory that she felt fit your behavior.....you would be pissed?


Ya see...I believe if we go there with derogatory name calling, we invite unnecessary confrontation, which somtimes end up in unnecessary jail time.


Some women may act like H*** all day long, but that's there problem..not yours. Then again we don't know what their baggage is, obviously it's something going on to even warrant that type of attention. There's nothing wrong with being mercyful sometime.
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Anonymous20 » July 3rd, 2004, 3:50 pm

"people on the planet are children of Father and Mother Africa. And if we share the same mother and father, then surely we are all brothers and sisters. "
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Anonymous20 » July 3rd, 2004, 3:54 pm

ooops hehe wrong thread :)
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Red_Diamond » December 3rd, 2004, 3:23 am

Well it aint a big deal unless a nicca say it . Me and dawgs use the term B**** and hoe all the time....we be like b***** stop trippin etc.... etc... thats just how we talk its funny that if a nicca call me out my name I'll lose it, but be fa real saying Bye Hoe to ya dawg and a nicca saying F*** u Hoe is two different things
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Common Sense » December 3rd, 2004, 8:49 am

Really? I think when we start getting used to using derogatory names as terms of endearment, we are taking steps backwards. In a sense, we are giving permission to be downgraded.

It's only a matter of time before others start calling black women b's and hoez's.

It teaches the young girls they are not as worthy as other women.
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby ChAoS » December 3rd, 2004, 9:24 am

I treats a Bit*h like Bit*h and a woman like a queen=p)
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Red_Diamond » December 3rd, 2004, 10:43 am

I feel you Common Sense
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Individual » December 3rd, 2004, 11:44 am

Why did it have to be black women??

i call all girls bitches n hoes..

and it aint the street and homie or music influence..

its my own experiences and seeing how each and every one of them are bitches n hos..they're scanless
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Red_Diamond » December 3rd, 2004, 11:50 am

fool you just said some Messed up s*** all women aint the same thats like saying all niccas are doggs but I aint cause there are some good ones out there
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Common Sense » December 3rd, 2004, 3:23 pm

Individual wrote:Why did it have to be black women??

Your right, this could apply to all women, but for sake of this thread, it was named black women, since that's where most of this abuse is aimed toward.

Individual wrote:i call all girls women n hoes..

So you don't have respect for women? Respect for your mother, aunts, grandmother????? etc.

Individual wrote:and it aint the street and homie or music influence..

You don't need to be from this, to have no respect for women.

Individual wrote:its my own experiences and seeing how each and every one of them are women n hos..they're scanless

This could be true, but I would have to give you the benefit of the doubt, that you don't have too much experience with women.
heck...you may even have a daughter one day.
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby B.M.W-Soldier » December 3rd, 2004, 7:42 pm

All races call females bitches and hoes why pick one out and target that one this post should be why do people refer to women as bitches and hoes because every color calls women of their race and outside their race bitch and hoe
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Common Sense » December 3rd, 2004, 8:56 pm

B.M.W-Soldier wrote:All races call females women and hoes why pick one out and target that one this post should be why do people refer to women as women and hoes because every color calls women of their race and outside their race bitch and hoe

Not on the scale like black women. Black women has been referred as B's and H's so much that is has almost become commercial.

I have never heard a Jewish man call a Jewish female a B or a Hoe.
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby B.M.W-Soldier » December 3rd, 2004, 10:59 pm

Just because you never heard it doesn't mean it was never said come to corwn height brooklyn and I can most def produce evidence for you
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Common Sense » December 5th, 2004, 10:30 am

B.M.W-Soldier wrote:Just because you never heard it doesn't mean it was never said come to corwn height brooklyn and I can most def produce evidence for you

I was commenting more on a general term, but your probably right.
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Individual » December 5th, 2004, 10:45 am

Common Sense wrote:
Individual wrote:Why did it have to be black women??

Your right, this could apply to all women, but for sake of this thread, it was named black women, since that's where most of this abuse is aimed toward.

Individual wrote:i call all girls women n hoes..

So you don't have respect for women? Respect for your mother, aunts, grandmother????? etc.

Individual wrote:and it aint the street and homie or music influence..

You don't need to be from this, to have no respect for women.

Individual wrote:its my own experiences and seeing how each and every one of them are women n hos..they're scanless

This could be true, but I would have to give you the benefit of the doubt, that you don't have too much experience with women.
heck...you may even have a daughter one day.


I got respect for my family..men n women..but other girls No..I dont treat them like shit..i just dont got no love for no trick ass bitch
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Common Sense » December 5th, 2004, 10:56 am

LOL...................I hear ya.
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby sexy365 » December 5th, 2004, 2:04 pm

i'm feelin you Red_Diamond!
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby SD4life » December 5th, 2004, 4:27 pm

I don't really talk with black women, but I still think its wrong.
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Pumpkin2 » December 26th, 2004, 11:41 pm

SD4life wrote:I don't really talk with black women, but I still think its wrong.
DEFINATION IN WEBESTER DICTIONARY -A BIT-H IS A FEMALE DOG......NOW WHEN U USED THAT WORD U TALKING ABOUT FEMALES.....AND GUESS WHAT WE ALL HAVE A MOTHER AND I HOPE SHE WAS A FEMALE......SO THE NEXT TIME U USED THAT WORD...ASK YOURE SELF ARE YOU CALLING YOURE MOTHER A DOG.
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Postby Red_Diamond » December 27th, 2004, 12:10 am

lmao u right but think about it ppl call each other dogs anyway just in a differemt way ex: What up dawg, but there is something I wanna know and I'm bout to start a topic bout it right now
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby the_urban_prince » December 28th, 2004, 2:08 am

Common Sense wrote:These B***h'es and hoes are somebody's mothers, sisters and aunts, and I'm sure if you dug deep enough you would find a troubled soul in desparate need of help........not more abuse.
there isn't always a mellow dramatic story behind it.sometimes their just bitches and hoes nothing more nothing less.men also fall into the bitches and hoes category.your not being objective enough.
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Postby Pumpkin2 » December 28th, 2004, 5:46 pm

Red_Diamond wrote:lmao u right but think about it ppl call each other dogs anyway just in a differemt way ex: What up dawg, but there is something I wanna know and I'm bout to start a topic bout it right now
but the word bit-h is used has an insult...or a word to put down someone...its destructive lanague...which is a risk factor for violence.thats why its important to know who u are and these putdowns...punk...bitch...buster.....etc. u wont responed to ,cause u know who you are.but if u dont know who u are u might think u are a bitch..or punk.......and then it escalates to a fight.
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby FLUID » December 29th, 2004, 8:25 am

I CALL ALL WOMEN BITCHES, HOES, SLUTS, BUSTDOWNS, & TRAMPS. IT DON'T MATTER WHAT RACE THEY ARE--WHITE, BLACK, HISPANIC, ASIAN. IF THEY ACTIN LIKE ONE, CALL EM' ONE.
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Red_Diamond » December 29th, 2004, 9:17 pm

FLUID wrote:I CALL ALL WOMEN women, HOES, SLUTS, BUSTDOWNS, & TRAMPS. IT DON'T MATTER WHAT RACE THEY ARE--WHITE, BLACK, HISPANIC, ASIAN. IF THEY ACTIN LIKE ONE, CALL EM' ONE.


What the hell is a BUSTDOWN?
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby FLUID » December 30th, 2004, 1:20 am

^^^^^A LITTLE BITCH YOU DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT. YOU MIGHT DRINK with HER OR SMOKE HER OUT BUT AFTER ALL THAT YOU JUST GON' BUST HER ASS DOWN AND GO ON ABOUT YO' BUSINESS.
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Red_Diamond » December 30th, 2004, 1:29 am

FLUID wrote:^^^^^A LITTLE BITCH YOU DON'T GIVE A fu-- ABOUT. YOU MIGHT DRINK with HER OR SMOKE HER OUT BUT AFTER ALL THAT YOU JUST GON' BUST HER ASS DOWN AND GO ON ABOUT YO' BUSINESS.



oh ok
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Common Sense » December 30th, 2004, 10:12 am

FLUID wrote:^^^^^A LITTLE BITCH YOU DON'T GIVE A fu-- ABOUT. YOU MIGHT DRINK with HER OR SMOKE HER OUT BUT AFTER ALL THAT YOU JUST GON' BUST HER ASS DOWN AND GO ON ABOUT YO' BUSINESS.

So this is how you feel about women? Practicing traits like this, your relationship with women in generally is not going to be very good.

Your chances of marrying a descent quality women will be slim to none due to your limited insight about women.

On the other hand, to give respect, you must have self respect.

Also you gotta remember: What goes around comes around, even from women.
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby FLUID » December 30th, 2004, 10:37 am

^^^^^MAN I'M TALKIN BOUT BUSTDOWN BROADS. IT'S A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A BUSTDOWN AND A WOMAN. I KNOW HOW TO TREAT WIFEY.
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Common Sense » December 30th, 2004, 12:59 pm

^^^
LOL..........Good to hear. Some bustdown chicks try to bustdown fellas at first opportunity. Alway's tryin' to catch a fool slippin'.....LOL.
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby FLUID » December 30th, 2004, 3:18 pm

^^^^^AH HELL YEAH, MOST BUSTDOWN BROADS ARE BROKE SO THEY'LL TRY TO STEAL FROM YOU OR SET YOU UP. GOTTA BE CAREFUL. THEY MIGHT EVEN TRY TO CAUSE SOME DRAMA BETWEEN YOU & YOUR WIFEY.
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Re: How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/

Postby Hell » March 18th, 2007, 1:56 pm

Common Sense wrote:Many young black men are out there still referring to black women as Bit -chezs and Hooooo'ez.

Does this send a message to our young females of what to expect from black men?

Is this really the feeling about black women or is it just another accepted sayin' like n***a.
That's what they are point blank.
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Postby Lonewolf » March 18th, 2007, 5:14 pm

When I read up on past stereotypes and shit ~~> coming from those not
from the Race & Culture . . . I never fail to notice our Mexican women
set up under the light of being quick in running away from their men and
into bed with the liberal Anglo-men. Mexican women in the past ~~> were
portayed as nothing less than "easy" and prostitutes. Even today when
people think of Mexica women in places like per say TJ, the first think that
pops into their heads is ~~> prostitutes. HOW FAR THAT IS FROM TRUTH!

I used to think about it whenever I needewd to approach a Black woman..
In my experiences and thinking ~~> they were quick to bark off at you.
To me, it seemed like they were always angry, and I used to think .. WHY?
I ain't messin' with them, and I ain't lookin' to get on top of them -- so
WHY TRIP?

NOW I UNDERSTAND SOMEWHAT . . .

SO WHY DON'T YOU BLACK MEN CRITICIZING THINK ABOUT IT
AND WORK ON IT!
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