Interracial Dating or Marriage

[George]

Nothing shameful or wrong with being of mixed race.

Nothing shameful of being in a interracial relationship. If your wife/girl or whatever makes you happy, does it make sense to break up with her just cuz society is not happy with who you are dating/marrying????

If someone makes your life happy, why break it off just cuz other people feel miserable about it?????????

[Common Sense]

Osama bin Laden had a little love affair with a black mistress. she says she is half Arab and half black. She looks very afrocentric...when I saw her in a interview last year.

Her name is Kola Boof. What she said about her ex lover was not flattering.

On August 23rd, 2003...Kola Boof appeared on FOX NEWS top rated program "Big Story Weekend with Rita Cosby". Boof, who had recently suffered a miscarriage, spoke about her days as Osama Bin Laden's mistress, referring to him as a combination of "Hitler and Ike Turner"...as well as a brilliant poet. Boof pointed out that he "raped" her the first night they met.

You can see the interview transcipt on the Osama bin Laden/Islamic Extremist Thread Page 3.

[AcmeWhiteBread]

Osama is afraid of women and so is most of the Muslim world. Why do you think they feel the need to torture, maim and destroy their self esteem. Im telling ya, the more I learn about, i slum , the more I hate muslims. They have added zero to the well being of man kind.

[AcmeWhiteBread]

Osama is afraid of women and so is most of the Muslim world. Why do you think they feel the need to torture, maim and destroy their self esteem of women. Im telling ya, the more I learn about, i slum , the more I hate muslims. They have added zero to the well being of man kind.

[Common Sense]

Osama is afraid of women and so is most of the Muslim world. Why do you think they feel the need to torture, maim and destroy their self esteem of women. Im telling ya, the more I learn about, i slum , the more I hate muslims. They have added zero to the well being of man kind.

Welcome back ACME. The Osama bin Laden thread is pretty hot right now..if you choose to go over there.......LOL.

[Mrs. D.]

Hi - new to the board - first post.

I'm caucasian, have always dated same. Mostly because in this rural area, the population is not very diverse. However, awhile back I met and fell in love with a Black man. It was just so powerful, I wouldn't care what race, color, etc., he was - as long as he was HIM. I'd never really thought about the whole interracial marriage issue due to the remote area I live in. It doesn't bother me whatsoever. You can't help who you fall in love with. (just me two cents)

[Common Sense]

Hi - new to the board - first post.

I'm caucasian, have always dated same. Mostly because in this rural area, the population is not very diverse. However, awhile back I met and fell in love with a Black man. It was just so powerful, I wouldn't care what race, color, etc., he was - as long as he was HIM. I'd never really thought about the whole interracial marriage issue due to the remote area I live in. It doesn't bother me whatsoever. You can't help who you fall in love with. (just me two cents)

Hi Mrs. D,

Welcome to the thread. I agree with you, and that is usually the case. You fall in love with the person not the race. If the same man was of the same race, you would still fall in love with him.

Other the hand, some people are attracted to others purely on race, and won't have anything romatically to do with their own race.

Some black men exclusively date women.
Some white men exclusively date asians.
Asian women usually date only white men outside of their race.

I think when race is the main criteria when selecting someone outside of your race vs. personality and compatibility, they're is usually something psychological behind it.

[Panik]

I think that those who will have nothing to do with other races sexually are not necessarily only attracted to their race, but their beliefs won't allow them to mess with another. I thnk they are still attracted whether they admit it nor not. Like my brother for instance. He isn't a white power, but he is a die hard wood. And he has spent 6 or 7 of the last 10 years on 3 and 4 yards in different state hotels. He says the same type of shi- that acme says. Black girls are nasty, big lips, noses, monkeys etc. But he also admitted that he would F halle berry if nobody ever found out. It's all bullshi- to me. As a man, you cannot look at a fine girl from a race you hate and think she is ugly, You cansay it out loud, but deep inside you can't possibly be unnactracted to a pretty girl, no matter what the color. This goes for the militant black guys too. Whether they admit it or not, they have seen a white girl they wanted tobone before. It's all just bullshi-.

[Common Sense]

^^^If your brother did nail Halle, he wouldn't be able to hold that in, he would tell everybody....LOL. 15 minutes of fame. He would be the man.


P.S. Sorry for the mix up....

[BABYBRAZE]

eventually america's majority race is gonna b a mix of all type of shit and racism is only prolonging it

[Panik]

^^^If your dad did nail Halle, he wouldn't be able to hold that in, he would tell everybody....LOL. 15 minutes of fame. He would be the man.

brother, not dad. AndI don;tknow. The only reason the subject came up was he was sayin in the pen they showed a movie and halle berry was in it. One of the woods made a comment of how he wanted to F-uck, and I gueess he got taxed severely by the other white boys for sayin in public that he wanted to F a black girl.

She is half white though right?

[Michelle]

She's half English I think.

[Common Sense]

One thing I can say about English girls..well let's go with British girls, is that they are generally down to earth, and don't require so much BS to be impressed.

I like a girl that doesn't mind wearing jeans and a T shirt and a friendly stroll down to the pub for a couple of pints.

American women especially on the two coast (L.A. & N.Y.) tend to be alot more high maintenence.

[Lonewolf]

I'm an oldie, I like them to know how to cook some yummy mex' food too, not just look fine but know how to take care of the familia.

As far as inter-marriage, well love is love, now if you're marrying for another reason, then I would have to string you up if you try to tie up with my daughter per say.

[Common Sense]

I'm an oldie, I like them to know how to cook some yummy mex' food too, not just look fine but know how to take care of the familia.

As far as inter-marriage, well love is love, now if you're marrying for another reason, then I would have to string you up if you try to tie up with my daughter per say.

a little off topic (sorry)

To Lonewolf:
Those are great qualities. I do admire a strong family which is so prevalent in Latin culture. Sometimes I wonder if taking care of the family has become too old sckool for some or distorted by others.

I have a question for you regarding distorting the old family values, maybe you can give me some feedback on this.

I was chatting with a few latina's down in El Paso, Texas. They were complaining that there men were hard core trippin', demanding that they stay at home with the children, no outside contact with their girlfriends, do what they say, and do not question authority. I think one of them was a victim of domestic violence too.

Is there a blur today with old latin family custom vs. a new breed of rules that the young generation is practicing. These two young women I spoke to seemed very miserable. They were trying to blame it on custom old customs.

I was thinking maybe it isn't custom, but the two men that they married?????

[Kemosave]

I think if a Senorita is trying to act white and finding rejection she will be unhappy. When you can be real with yourself and real about who and what you are and find contentment with that and THEN move on from there to be all you can be you will be challenged and happy with yourself.

[Lonewolf]

Q1 - I was chatting with a few latina's down in El Paso, Texas. They were complaining that there men were hard core trippin', demanding that they stay at home with the children, no outside contact with their girlfriends, do what they say, and do not question authority. I think one of them was a victim of domestic violence too.

Q2 - Is there a blur today with old latin family custom vs. a new breed of rules that the young generation is practicing. These women I spoke to seemed very miserable.

A1 - Most people beleive that Mexicans are the traditional wife-beater, with his arrogant "I'm the boss" attitude towards the women. Yes is true to a degree, but this attitude is prevalent in many others - if not to say - most other cultures old and new. The liberation & womens rights movement has been strong in our culture also, Mexico has always been on the heels of whatever takes place here in the U.S. and naturally some women will take the liberal ways and run with it per say. Traditionally our women still maintain the household, and that is their kingdom, no matter what anybody tells you, for the most part - they rule in the house - period.
Now look at our women, in the streets and on t.v., don't they look fine ? Now if we were really ogres, would we allow this from our women ? They are beatifull, intelligent, and loyal. We know this, so naturally we can be over protective with them. Now I'll ask, why would some Latinas be so open to you about their men unless, they have a more liberal trend and be open for this type of conversation, right ? As time brings changes to everything and all, so it does with our people, especially here and in the major cities of Mexico. We don't put them down, we dow't keep them as slaves, we don't neglect them, quite the opposite; we value them, we love them, we take care of them. They hold a key role & rule along side with us in our homes "but" and here is the key, on the outside, they follow our lead. This is out of respect in keeping with tradition, for like in marriage - one is the the head of the family. In american marriages, there's such an emphasis on equality accross the board - that marriages do not last for the most part. In the teens, american women are so liberal and strive for higher learning to such a degree, that their traditional role in the home is very much put in the back burner.

A2 - Misery is all over, unfortunally those "brute" Mexicans that have problems with themselves and take it out on their better half have no excuse whatsoever, that is not us in general. No there's no blur, cultural gap maybe, but for the most part, the right stuff that bonds our families is still there.

[Common Sense]

^^^Thanks Lonewolf.

Many American women that I've spoke to, would like a man "kick ass man" that took care of business and supported the family. Many of them want to be the stay at home mother and take care of the kids, but because of the liberal attitudes as you say, many women have to go into the work force, because the man is not there or he is not the stand up and take care of your family type guy.

I think the latin culture is beautiful with solid family values. I guess in any relationship you can always have problems.

[mission]

. In american marriages, there's such an emphasis on equality accross the board - that marriages do not last for the most part. In the teens, american women are so liberal and strive for higher learning to such a degree, that their traditional role in the home is very much put in the back burner.

The Womens Rights Movement Has really been a down fall to Traditional Family values, Now days it doesn't matter what race you are the media and eveything else pushes this type of garbage to children in general. My wife is from Guernavaca Mexico but has lived here most of her life, she's some what traditional in home values but doesn't really like to cook though.LOL but her mom straight hooks it up.LOL. But I have seen her friends go down the path of liberal values, getting abortions like it was going to the gracery store, cheating on thier husbands like it ain't shyt, leaving thier kids with thier mom to go clubbing everynight, & so on. And this type of shyt is looked at like ain't a big deal. Sorry this is out of topic but I had to speak on it.

[Anonymous20]

I WILL NEVER DESTROY MY RACE-------- TO EACH HIS OWN BUT I THINK RACE MIXING IS COMPLETELY WRONG.

[Common Sense]

I WILL NEVER DESTROY MY RACE-------- TO EACH HIS OWN BUT I THINK RACE MIXING IS COMPLETELY WRONG.

Well everyone is entitled to date/marry who they want. If your not down with it that's cool. It's not cool when you subject someone else with your view that may be down with it.

[Anonymous20]

WELL CORRECT ME IF I'M WRONG BUT THAT'S WHAT THIS ENTIRE THREAD IS ABOUT.
IT'S ASKING FOR OUR OPINIONS. IM NOT SUBJECTING ANYONE TO ANYTHING.
IF THEY DONT LIKE IT THEY SHOUDN'T BE IN A THREAD THAT ASK'S THE QUESTION:" WHAT DO U ALL THINK OF RACE MIXING"

STRAIGHT UP. BESIDES IF A MAN CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTHS OUT THERE THEN HE SHOULDN'T CALL HIMSELF A MAN.

BROWN POWER...BROWN PRIDE...BROWN FORCE

BrownAndProud

[Common Sense]

^^^I didn't mean YOU in particular Brown Pride. It was just a general statement.

It's cool..thanks for your opinion on the matter.

[Lonewolf]

Other than keeping the race pure blood, if there is such a thing after so many milleniums of man's wandering thru this earth; would you say that there may be some other underlying reasons for not inter-marrying between the races ?
I remember back in the days when just about any forms you filled out in school, work applications, medical centers, etc, it asked to check from the following 1 - caucasian, 2 - negro, 3 - mongoloid, now you have all kinds of nationalities listed, but as far as race is concerned mankind is broken up into only 3 or am I wrong on this ?

[Panik]

WELL CORRECT ME IF I'M WRONG BUT THAT'S WHAT THIS ENTIRE THREAD IS ABOUT.
IT'S ASKING FOR OUR OPINIONS. IM NOT SUBJECTING ANYONE TO ANYTHING.
IF THEY DONT LIKE IT THEY SHOUDN'T BE IN A THREAD THAT ASK'S THE QUESTION:" WHAT DO U ALL THINK OF RACE MIXING"

STRAIGHT UP. BESIDES IF A MAN CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTHS OUT THERE THEN HE SHOULDN'T CALL HIMSELF A MAN.

BROWN POWER...BROWN PRIDE...BROWN FORCE

BrownAndProud

OK homie, then what "race" are you? you from Peru right? what race do you call yourself? There is black blood, inca blood, and european blood down there. Do you have a traceable family tree back to before any europeans got to peru? Do you have a girlfried or wife with the same? No disrespect, but chances are that you are not going to be able to keep your promise.

[Lonewolf]

I'm also proud of my people and culture, but not in the sense where I think that mine is a superior race / nation or sh-t like that. I'm proud of the good qualities, customs, traditions, unique ways and styles, language variation and so forth, but I also "know" that everyone else got theirs too. I look at "us all" as expressions of the ALMIGHTY CREATOR, each with its own beauty, each meant for us all to learn and grow into being one in HIM.
Now I know that some don't share my faith, and I hold my reservations just like most of us, but deep down there is a lil' bit of everything in all of us, good as well as bad. The arguments can go never-ending, and points being made left and right about this race having done this, and that race being this or that, but it is really irrelevant if you get beyond that and look at life straight in the eye for what it is - not for what we make it to be.
beautiful as opposed to ugly, right as opposed to wrong, love as opposed to hate, full as opposed to void, that's is my opinion.

[Panik]

Other than keeping the race pure blood, if there is such a thing after so many milleniums of man's wandering thru this earth; would you say that there may be some other underlying reasons for not inter-marrying between the races ?
I remember back in the days when just about any forms you filled out in school, work applications, medical centers, etc, it asked to check from the following 1 - caucasian, 2 - negro, 3 - mongoloid, now you have all kinds of nationalities listed, but as far as race is concerned mankind is broken up into only 3 or am I wrong on this ?

you are right. there are only 3 actuall races, everything else is just a mixture of 2 or more.

[Anonymous20]

WELL IN MY CASE, I WAS THE FIRST TO LEAVE THE ANDES. YES PURE BLOODED. AND 100% TRACABLE. NO DOUBT.

AS FOR INCAS.....THATS A TERM GIVEN TO THE NATIVES IN GENERAL BY WHITE MAN. THEY WERE FAR FROM NATIVE PEOPLE....THE NATIVES OF MY LAND ARE THE CHACHAPOYA.....ONE AND ONLY NATIVES.
AS FOR EUROPEAN BLOOD MOST OF MY FAMILY THERE NEVER KNEW A WHITE MAN. (AND LED RIGHTEOUS LIVES)

YOU ARE TALKING NOW ABOUT OTHER THINGS......EVEN THE WORD PERU IS WRONG....THE ANDEAN PEOPLE IS MY PEOPLE...AND WE ARE FROM THE ENTIRE ANDES MTNS. FROM WHAT IS NOW WHITE ECUADOR TO CHILE.

I'M THE WRONG ONE FOR THIS BECAUSE I AM PURE. SURE I HAVE FRIENDS OF ALL RACES. AND EACH OF THEM HAS THERE OWN CHOICES, AND I RESPECT THAT. TO EACH HIS OWN. BUT I DESPISE A BROWN MAN WHO MIXES.

SIMPLE YOU CLAIM TO LOVE YOUR RACE? YEAH RIGHT. NO WAY. IMPOSSIBLE. NOT IF U R CONTRIBUTING TO ITS DESTRUCTION.


ALL RACES ARE BEAUTIFUL.......KEEP THEM ALIVE AND THE TRADITIONS TOO..




BROWN AND PROUD

[Anonymous20]

@ COMMON SENSE..........MY APOLOGIES MY BROTHA... NO DIS INTENDED....

[Panik]

WELL IN MY CASE, I WAS THE FIRST TO LEAVE THE ANDES. YES PURE BLOODED. AND 100% TRACABLE. NO DOUBT.

AS FOR INCAS.....THATS A TERM GIVEN TO THE NATIVES IN GENERAL BY WHITE MAN. THEY WERE FAR FROM NATIVE PEOPLE....THE NATIVES OF MY LAND ARE THE CHACHAPOYA.....ONE AND ONLY NATIVES.
AS FOR EUROPEAN BLOOD MOST OF MY FAMILY THERE NEVER KNEW A WHITE MAN. (AND LED RIGHTEOUS LIVES)

YOU ARE TALKING NOW ABOUT OTHER THINGS......EVEN THE WORD PERU IS WRONG....THE ANDEAN PEOPLE IS MY PEOPLE...AND WE ARE FROM THE ENTIRE ANDES MTNS. FROM WHAT IS NOW WHITE ECUADOR TO CHILE.

I'M THE WRONG ONE FOR THIS BECAUSE I AM PURE. SURE I HAVE FRIENDS OF ALL RACES. AND EACH OF THEM HAS THERE OWN CHOICES, AND I RESPECT THAT. TO EACH HIS OWN. BUT I DESPISE A BROWN MAN WHO MIXES.

SIMPLE YOU CLAIM TO LOVE YOUR RACE? YEAH RIGHT. NO WAY. IMPOSSIBLE. NOT IF U R CONTRIBUTING TO ITS DESTRUCTION.


ALL RACES ARE BEAUTIFUL.......KEEP THEM ALIVE AND THE TRADITIONS TOO..




BROWN AND PROUD

so you will only have sex with a girl that you can prove also just came from the andes and you can verify her family never saw a euripean? I would start getting used to the right hand homie.

[Panik]

WELL IN MY CASE, I WAS THE FIRST TO LEAVE THE ANDES. YES PURE BLOODED. AND 100% TRACABLE. NO DOUBT.

AS FOR INCAS.....THATS A TERM GIVEN TO THE NATIVES IN GENERAL BY WHITE MAN. THEY WERE FAR FROM NATIVE PEOPLE....THE NATIVES OF MY LAND ARE THE CHACHAPOYA.....ONE AND ONLY NATIVES.
AS FOR EUROPEAN BLOOD MOST OF MY FAMILY THERE NEVER KNEW A WHITE MAN. (AND LED RIGHTEOUS LIVES)

YOU ARE TALKING NOW ABOUT OTHER THINGS......EVEN THE WORD PERU IS WRONG....THE ANDEAN PEOPLE IS MY PEOPLE...AND WE ARE FROM THE ENTIRE ANDES MTNS. FROM WHAT IS NOW WHITE ECUADOR TO CHILE.

I'M THE WRONG ONE FOR THIS BECAUSE I AM PURE. SURE I HAVE FRIENDS OF ALL RACES. AND EACH OF THEM HAS THERE OWN CHOICES, AND I RESPECT THAT. TO EACH HIS OWN. BUT I DESPISE A BROWN MAN WHO MIXES.

SIMPLE YOU CLAIM TO LOVE YOUR RACE? YEAH RIGHT. NO WAY. IMPOSSIBLE. NOT IF U R CONTRIBUTING TO ITS DESTRUCTION.


ALL RACES ARE BEAUTIFUL.......KEEP THEM ALIVE AND THE TRADITIONS TOO..




BROWN AND PROUD

Oh, and of course there were others besides the Inca, but they are the most well known, but you got the point. But calling them a different race from what you are would be wrong. they are a different culture, but they came from the same people you did. All "native" americans, north and south originated in asia, either china or mongolia, so the inca would be the same in basic race, just not the culture.

[LinozMami]

I feel what youre saying. I think its sick when mothers put a pipe, a man, a bottle, or even money before their child. Sometimes both parents need to work. But I think a kid should grow up with at least one parent who is there for them. Thats why we got a world full of crazy ass lil pitbulls for kids. Fathers leave cuz mommy was a one night stand, and the mothers resent being the only responsible party and turn to whatever numbs the bad feelings. Anyway. off topic but I had to comment on that subject. All races have that problem. Parents wanna work part time on their kids and full tiem on their money, drugs, sex, etc. I thank God I got some sense when I had my son. Hes first.