Black Parenting

[SouljahGirl]

I think that before we can become affective at parenting. We must first.. Grow up Ourselves.

So many of us are of the age where we should be making better choices, better descisions. But instead we live as though we are still in our youth. No responsability, no accountability.

If you want to directley affect the plight of the black youth in America. You must first look at the attitudes, charecteristics, behavior and the moral fiber of the Black man and the Black woman.

For it is we, that rear the children. They will become us eventually. So.......... Mr and Mrs want to help the youth.. Be the best YOU that you can be. Don't be a liar or your children will lie to you. Don't be a theif or your children will steal from you.

Don't be a gossip or go around bath mouthing each other.

Create in yourself a Moral Fiber. Only then will we not rear garbage attiude haveing, garbage vocabulary having and Truth Be Told............ garbage ass young people..

Take it like you wanna take it........... I could care less

[AllhoodPublications]

I think that before we can become affective at parenting. We must first.. Grow up Ourselves.

Yep. I dont think I matured until I was already past 30. And I see some dudes 45 that still havent grown up.

Don't be a gossip or go around bath mouthing each other.

I'm not very optimistic about this one. That seems to be a huge problem everywhere.

Take it like you wanna take it........... I could care less

We have to surround ourselves, and surround the YOUTH with positive people and positive things.

[Klaxon]

The two-parent nuclear family is the most stable and supportive social/living-arrangement ever invented. That's not an opinion, its just statistical fact. Our society as a whole went wrong when we strayed away from encouraging and emphasizing that lifestyle. This isn't just a minority problem. White families are also being torn apart in modern America. Unfortunately Blacks and Latinos bear the brunt due to the additional factors of poverty and gang culture being present. We need a new direction for American society. This is an American *cultural* problem by the way. Notice there are parts of the world (Asia, some parts of Latin America, some parts of Africa) that are many, many more times poorer than the worst ghetto in the US, but the family structure has managed to survive and crime is not as prevalent.

[SouljahGirl]

The two-parent nuclear family is the most stable and supportive social/living-arrangement ever invented. That's not an opinion, its just statistical fact. Our society as a whole went wrong when we strayed away from encouraging and emphasizing that lifestyle. This isn't just a minority problem. White families are also being torn apart in modern America. Unfortunately Blacks and Latinos bear the brunt due to the additional factors of poverty and gang culture being present. We need a new direction for American society. This is an American *cultural* problem by the way. Notice there are parts of the world (Asia, some parts of Latin America, some parts of Africa) that are many, many more times poorer than the worst ghetto in the US, but the family structure has managed to survive and crime is not as prevalent.

Where do we begin?

[SouljahGirl]

Black Parenting.. Yeah right.. What are we teaching ? We aint even got a job. So we dam sure are not teching work ethic.

What are we teaching. What are our parenting skills? Where did we get them? Hell I drive around hoods all day long and I see litle sister with babies in a stroller walikg around all day. Hair uncombed, in pajama's, talking loud.

Or what about the one who's baby is walking to slow and she yell.. GET YO STUPD ASS UP HER. and snatch the baby by the arm..

Black Parenting.. Yeah Right!!! All y'all black folks that got the education is too scared to come in the hoods and teach us how to transistion into mainstream socety. Because let's face it. We are in a world of our own. We don't think like mainstream society.

We are gutter. We have had to scrape and srounge and take hand outs and welfare and function with inadequit education. man please...

Don't get me started

[SouljahGirl]

[SouljahGirl]

This was a good thread