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by **none for you** » March 15th, 2006, 4:51 pm

oh // and before you start putting your faith in college text...
remember..
professors are fallable.

and in spite of all the biographies, texts, and spirtual books I have read only one book (and I have read many thousands of books of many different genres) my entire life that I felt told absolute TRUTH...

that book is called
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz.

but that's just my opinion.

by **MiChuhSuh** » March 15th, 2006, 5:15 pm

perongregory wrote:Look, I'm not against interracial relationships, I was just stating something that I read in a psychology text book published this year. Whats so hard to understand about that? You guys post all kinda shit from all kinda funnystyle sources, but when I relate a proven scientific fact yall on some other shit. Tell the scientist who ran the test that they are bs, but I don't wanna hear you tryin to spit knowledge about some other shit, cause either you go with what the academic community says or you don't. Not some: I want to believe what this historian said, but not this archaeologist findings.

Okay, I can agree with you there, psychology does say that in general.

But even psychologists will tell you this - upbringing has more to do with it, especially when "unintentional" (as in the parents never tried to impose believe but it ended up happening by experience)
Also, inadverdant observations people have as children have a big influence.

Now most of what we see is same race couples, so that is what children mostly feel comfortable with, but that is a generalization and not always the case.

Maybe I misread, but I thought you said it was unnatural or not normal to date outside race, rather than "perceived as normal"

But really race is just an obstacle to prevent humanity from doing evil as one unit, look at Genesis. And if you look at the New Testament, faith in God/Christ is what breaks the physical bonds of race (Hitler and several former popes in Medieval times were full of BS and obviously never read the Bible without preconceptions).
It says in the New Testament, now there is no Jew nor Gentile nor foreigner nor alien, we are as one in Christ

Honestly my biggest obstacles would be religion, and unfortunately, looks (it's hard to overcome human shallowness)

by **perongregory** » March 15th, 2006, 5:31 pm

realize the real lies wrote:oh // and before you start putting your faith in college text...
remember..
professors are fallable.

and in spite of all the biographies, texts, and spirtual books I have read only one book (and I have read many thousands of books of many different genres) my entire life that I felt told absolute TRUTH...

that book is called
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz.

but that's just my opinion.

I've heard of this book. What is it about? And I agree with you on the internal spiritual quest, but it's so hard, especially with so many bad influences, and people with ill-will sorrounding you.

by **MiChuhSuh** » March 15th, 2006, 6:33 pm

^ Soooooooooooo true

I can see just from that there is truth in you (lol kinda circular huh?)

It even says in the Bible, there is truth in all man, and God has given people evidence of truth all around and inside... but the thing is that evil influences began not only challenge, but much worse than that, twist and corrupt the truth so that the truth is buried in all sorts of decptions and lies... or even worse, the truth becomes misquoted and twisted... which is why there are things like the Bible, to guide through and past the deceptions and restore the truth.

by **ManifestTruth** » March 15th, 2006, 7:42 pm

Realize wrote:

"I know plenty of "experts" who suffer from terminal cranialrectosis."

hehehe, what the &%#@!, is that a condition that describes one's head
up one's ass?? if so, an over the counter remedy should be put in place
first thing tomorrow as far too many folks suffer from this terrible sickness.. :lol:

by **se11** » March 15th, 2006, 8:52 pm

perongregory wrote:who do we look to if not the experts?

look to common sense and what you know first hand. love is blind and 50% of all marriage end in divorce. have you n ever felt any feelings for someone of another race, i know i have. it may even hit you unexpectadly, but if you have feelings for someone you have feelings for someone reguardless of their color.

by **ManifestTruth** » March 15th, 2006, 9:04 pm

I'm bonin' errrrythang provided it's no one else's girl/wife/wifey/woman, et al. Wordlife though, how can one's hue, hair texture, and surname render them soooooooooooooo mofockin' different?

Like Se11 said, love/feelings are born out of random moments. In love,
like war, there is no rational, reason, or cerebral congruity. Shit gets passionate, cloudly, and off the hook..For those who love with an agenda,
hopefully one day you wake up and smell your life and learn to bubble in
the fragrance of the unexpected..

by **none for you** » March 15th, 2006, 9:13 pm

perongregory wrote:
realize the real lies wrote:oh // and before you start putting your faith in college text...
remember..
professors are fallable.

and in spite of all the biographies, texts, and spirtual books I have read only one book (and I have read many thousands of books of many different genres) my entire life that I felt told absolute TRUTH...

that book is called
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz.

but that's just my opinion.

I've heard of this book. What is it about? And I agree with you on the internal spiritual quest, but it's so hard, especially with so many bad influences, and people with ill-will sorrounding you.

http://www.miguelruiz.com/

as for the quest......its not easy.. but it is very simple. the thing is you have to want it so much you actually do it!
the trick is

1. live one day at a time.
2. progress not perfection
3. trust the process.

by **none for you** » March 15th, 2006, 9:16 pm

more exactly......

http://www.miguelruiz.com/teachings/fouragreements.html

by **MiChuhSuh** » March 15th, 2006, 9:17 pm

That's the one thing I noticed most, if anything, about love

there is NO REASON in love.... if anyone states a reason for love.... it's either not love (just "like") or it's something that makes love easier, not creates it... at most it's what got you to notice someone you love... not the cause of love...

Says in the Bible... even angel's can't fathom why God would love man.. after all our bs...

God's love is the greatest and truest love...

Meaning our true love will be teh same... irrational, infatuating... and not based on anything other than love

by **none for you** » March 15th, 2006, 9:23 pm

ManifestTruth wrote:I'm bonin' errrrythang provided it's no one else's girl/wife/wifey/woman, et al. Wordlife though, how can one's hue, hair texture, and surname render them soooooooooooooo mofockin' different?

Like Se11 said, love/feelings are born out of random moments. In love,
like war, there is no rational, reason, or cerebral congruity. Shit gets passionate, cloudly, and off the hook..For those who love with an agenda,
hopefully one day you wake up and smell your life and learn to bubble in
the fragrance of the unexpected..

"bonin everything" is about as far away from love as anything could possibly be.
that is conquest, not love.

by **none for you** » March 15th, 2006, 9:27 pm

ManifestTruth wrote:Realize wrote:

"I know plenty of "experts" who suffer from terminal cranialrectosis."

hehehe, what the &%#@!, is that a condition that describes one's head
up one's ass?? if so, an over the counter remedy should be put in place
first thing tomorrow as far too many folks suffer from this terrible sickness..

YUP!!! thats the one! and its a worldwide epidemic!!!

by **Anonymous20** » March 16th, 2006, 8:45 am

perongregory wrote:Shut the fu-- up faggot. Tryin to talk all hard and shit on this website. I don't give a fu-- if you aint my brother, you actin like a real bitch right now so if you was to be anything to me you'd my lil sister, punk. If you had good comprehension skills you would understand that when I say not normal, i'm not specifacally calling them weird or #%@& up, I'm saying that it doesn't happen the majority of the time. Thats not me saying that interracical couples are #%@& up. And I didn't make this up it's in a psychology text book from a university, so if you think its KKK or some shit you better check out the college, publisher, author etc. before you hate on me about some shit I read in a bona fide text book.

And where did I say I was talking for black men or anyone for that fact? I'm just telling how these scientist, the real fools in white coats, puts it. I have half white cousins, I got indian and white in me, I don't hate on my self or my cousins. So take your beef up with them scientist and get off my nuts.

The book is called: PSYCHOLOGY sixth edition by Henry Gleitman, Alan Fridlund, Daniel Reisberg
Talk to them before you talk to me. Trying to start beef for no reason.

I understand i flew off the handle and yeah that was dumb, but if you would have said you was quoting something you read but may not agree with i wouldnt have reacted that way. Maybe i jumped on your balls to quick i mean if you do believe that its your opinion but c'mon we get enough of that crap of racists without doing it our selves. Anyway this is me falling back and saying i shouldnt have gone over the top like that ok i was having a bad day aswell.

by **perongregory** » March 16th, 2006, 10:52 am

It's all good homie.

by **se11** » March 16th, 2006, 12:46 pm

realize the real lies wrote:
ManifestTruth wrote:I'm bonin' errrrythang provided it's no one else's girl/wife/wifey/woman, et al. Wordlife though, how can one's hue, hair texture, and surname render them soooooooooooooo mofockin' different?

Like Se11 said, love/feelings are born out of random moments. In love,
like war, there is no rational, reason, or cerebral congruity. Shit gets passionate, cloudly, and off the hook..For those who love with an agenda,
hopefully one day you wake up and smell your life and learn to bubble in
the fragrance of the unexpected..

"bonin everything" is about as far away from love as anything could possibly be.
that is conquest, not love.

boning will eventually lead to love. you see someone you think is good lookin you get to know them. why? because you want to bone them. then eventually feelings get greater and thats when the love can come in

by **perongregory** » March 16th, 2006, 2:39 pm

Thanks realize for those links.

Boning is the physical representation of our love.

by **ManifestTruth** » March 16th, 2006, 6:23 pm

Realize said:

"bonin everything" is about as far away from love as anything could possibly be. that is conquest, not love."

Well, conquest is when one is on a seek and conquer mission. I bartend,
so I'm sure you "realize" I have little need to pursue and conquer women. It's the other way around, ya dig? Anyways, I used bonin' euphemistically. You took it too literally and I understand that as one cannot truly emote in cyberspace. Just saying that I appreciate the beauty(internal/external) of all walks of women. Like Se11 said, bonin' is the
physical representation of love...

by **none for you** » March 16th, 2006, 10:03 pm

ManifestTruth wrote:Realize said:

"bonin everything" is about as far away from love as anything could possibly be. that is conquest, not love."

Well, conquest is when one is on a seek and conquer mission. I bartend,
so I'm sure you "realize" I have little need to pursue and conquer women. It's the other way around, ya dig? Anyways, I used bonin' euphemistically. You took it too literally and I understand that as one cannot truly emote in cyberspace. Just saying that I appreciate the beauty(internal/external) of all walks of women. Like Se11 said, bonin' is the
physical representation of love...

i

I used to bartend too and was known and the most hard-to-get bartender in town....
bonin may be the physical representation of love, but relationships based on sex rarely last beyond newess of it.....
real love is an expression that goes far beyond bonin.... otherwise prostitutes would be bought and owned on the first trick.
Think about it.... how many feelings were hurt by a physical expression of "love" that lacked most everything else.

by **none for you** » March 16th, 2006, 10:14 pm

se11 wrote:
boning will eventually lead to love. you see someone you think is good lookin you get to know them. why? because you want to bone them. then eventually feelings get greater and thats when the love can come in

I usually hear report that boning will eventually lead to resentment.
you see someone you want to bone,,,, its a good idea to get to know them first, so you can be sure those feelings are real and that it isnt good oldfashioned lust
(which is as close to love as stalking... and lets face it , every stalker is completely head over heals in love...with what is something to consider cuz it is usually some idea, and not the person at all)

and you might find out you cant stand them, and since you are boning them you are obligated to endure all those nasty annoying habits......
you know, familiarity breeds contempt/

so ,,,how can you love a piece of ass? really......
any professional prostitutes in the arena to answer?

by **none for you** » March 16th, 2006, 10:21 pm

perongregory wrote:Thanks realize for those links.

you're welcome.... Ihope and anyone else who checks it out gets as much or more out of it as I have

by **Christina Marie** » March 16th, 2006, 10:22 pm

se11 wrote:
realize the real lies wrote:
ManifestTruth wrote:I'm bonin' errrrythang provided it's no one else's girl/wife/wifey/woman, et al. Wordlife though, how can one's hue, hair texture, and surname render them soooooooooooooo mofockin' different?

Like Se11 said, love/feelings are born out of random moments. In love,
like war, there is no rational, reason, or cerebral congruity. Shit gets passionate, cloudly, and off the hook..For those who love with an agenda,
hopefully one day you wake up and smell your life and learn to bubble in
the fragrance of the unexpected..

"bonin everything" is about as far away from love as anything could possibly be.
that is conquest, not love.

boning will eventually lead to love. you see someone you think is good lookin you get to know them. why? because you want to bone them. then eventually feelings get greater and thats when the love can come in

So THATS what I have been doing wrong....lol. J/K!!!!!

by **Christina Marie** » March 16th, 2006, 10:25 pm

realize the real lies wrote:
se11 wrote:
boning will eventually lead to love. you see someone you think is good lookin you get to know them. why? because you want to bone them. then eventually feelings get greater and thats when the love can come in

I usually hear report that boning will eventually lead to resentment.
you see someone you want to bone,,,, its a good idea to get to know them first, so you can be sure those feelings are real and that it isnt good oldfashioned lust
(which is as close to love as stalking... and lets face it , every stalker is completely head over heals in love...with what is something to consider because it is usually some idea, and not the person at all)

and you might find out you cant stand them, and since you are boning them you are obligated to endure all those nasty annoying habits......
you know, familiarity breeds contempt/

so ,,,how can you love a piece of ass? really......
any professional prostitutes in the arena to answer?

EXCELLENT post!!!

by **MiChuhSuh** » March 16th, 2006, 10:38 pm

o so THAT's why black people hate white people... LOL

anyways back to the distraction, it's up to the person doing the boning, the "boner" lol and the person being boned in terms of love

Pimps bone and basically never love

by **se11** » March 18th, 2006, 12:21 am

realize the real lies wrote:
se11 wrote:
boning will eventually lead to love. you see someone you think is good lookin you get to know them. why? because you want to bone them. then eventually feelings get greater and thats when the love can come in

I usually hear report that boning will eventually lead to resentment.
you see someone you want to bone,,,, its a good idea to get to know them first, so you can be sure those feelings are real and that it isnt good oldfashioned lust
(which is as close to love as stalking... and lets face it , every stalker is completely head over heals in love...with what is something to consider because it is usually some idea, and not the person at all)

and you might find out you cant stand them, and since you are boning them you are obligated to endure all those nasty annoying habits......
you know, familiarity breeds contempt/

so ,,,how can you love a piece of ass? really......
any professional prostitutes in the arena to answer?

seeing something you like causes attraction and attraction causes love.

by **none for you** » March 18th, 2006, 12:31 am

hmmm
Isnt it the pimps makin the money and the tricks doin the bonin...

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