Whens the last time you truely forgave someone?
I have found that forgiving somone is more for your ownself than for the person your forgiving. It is a sort of release. Some people may view forgiveness as a sign of weakness, but I see it as sign of strength. It takes a real man to forgive and move on. Keeping grudges is for children and women (no disrespect).
I have forgiven before. Its not an easy thing to do. Not saying you should forgive the next day, sometimes it takes time to get over the current situtation. Forgiveness doesnt neccesarily mean you have to say it to the persons face, even though it does help. You can just say it to yourself, that you will bury the hatchett and stop your ill feelings towards that person.