How Do You Feel About Referring To Black Women As B****/Hoes

[Common Sense]

Many young black men are out there still referring to black women as Bit -chezs and Hooooo'ez.

Does this send a message to our young females of what to expect from black men?

Is this really the feeling about black women or is it just another accepted sayin' like n***a.

[MIDTOWN SB]

if they is a b!tch or a hoe then ima call em one, if they arent I wont

[Common Sense]

Then the cycle continues.

[sexy365]

It's wrong

[Common Sense]

Because sometimes we should be mercyful. Just because I feel a woman's lifestyle is that of a B***h and a hoe, who am I to kick her at her lowest point. She probably expects it because every other male in her life probably kicked her too, including family members.

Sometimes people learn through other people's compassion. Rather than continuing her misery......just be kind. People of color are not nearly as kind to each other as they should be.

These B***h'es and hoes are somebody's mothers, sisters and aunts, and I'm sure if you dug deep enough you would find a troubled soul in desparate need of help........not more abuse.

[wcrockets]

^ Good point!

[Blues]

Because sometimes we should be mercyful. Just because I feel a woman's lifestyle is that of a B***h and a hoe, who am I to kick her at her lowest point. She probably expects it because every other male in her life probably kicked her too, including family members.

Sometimes people learn through other people's compassion. Rather than continuing her misery......just be kind. People of color are not nearly as kind to each other as they should be.

These B***h'es and hoes are somebody's mothers, sisters and aunts, and I'm sure if you dug deep enough you would find a troubled soul in desparate need of help........not more abuse.

Allwell it your a "Q Bee" or a hoe than they are just that.personally as a silly kid I slip up and call iem one out the blues,but naw I don't believe in calling woman b**ches(of all races) unless they deserve it!(Mother's included!)

[blkjoker]

Because sometimes we should be mercyful. Just because I feel a woman's lifestyle is that of a B***h and a hoe, who am I to kick her at her lowest point. She probably expects it because every other male in her life probably kicked her too, including family members.

Sometimes people learn through other people's compassion. Rather than continuing her misery......just be kind. People of color are not nearly as kind to each other as they should be.

These B***h'es and hoes are somebody's mothers, sisters and aunts, and I'm sure if you dug deep enough you would find a troubled soul in desparate need of help........not more abuse.

In some cases you are right, but not everything, there are people out there that really dont care who they sleep with. I know a girl that smokes all day and fu@k all night. She said thats what she likes to do when her check comes on the first she pays her bills and smokes up the rest. She says she gots to have some good dick as well. What I like about her is she honest and dont give a fu@k what you call her. Now thats a true HO!

[Common Sense]

To Blues and Blkjoker:

Calling a woman a B***h and a Ho because of a sponataneous situation such as an arguement is totally different than referring to women as B***h and Ho's. For a matter of fact, some women refer to other women as B***hes and Ho's out of anger.

In a arguement it's more of a reaction, doesn't mean that the name caller really means it or that it's right to call a woman out of their name just because your mad.

When a man refers to women as B***hes and Ho's in general or as a less than group, that's a different story. That basically that man has no respect for women as a gender. It usually stems from some deep seated trauma or poor male modeling toward women from the man's past. This is the worst case scenerio. This man would most likely have intimacy problems with women and possibly is mentally and physically abusive. If the woman has kids and the kids are subjected to this abusive demeaning lifestyle, the males could possibly grow up to be B***ches and Ho haters.

Now the woman that pay's her bills on the first, smokes all dayand is all about gettin' some all night, I'm not sure if we can really clasify her as a Ho. There's alot of men who do the same thing. 40 ounce all day, smokin' out all evening and tryin' to get some from every chick that's willing. Do we call these men Ho's?

Women like to get theirs just like the next guy. We tend to have a double standard for women who drink, smoke and get a little bit from a few fools.

[Conman]

Many young black men are out there still referring to black women as Bit -chezs and Hooooo'ez...

Does this send a message to our young females of what to expect from black men?.

^^No.

Is this really the feeling about black women or is it just another accepted sayin' like n***a.

^^Hell No. As you are aware, many (most?) Black women refer to themselves as Bi tches or Hoes. Hell bi tch is a word of strength for some women. If you act like one, then do not be surprised if someone refers to you that way.

The sad thing is............I seem to run across waaaaaaaaaaaay more men that are behaving, walking, talking, and living their life like straight BI-TChes.

[Common Sense]

....LOL... Ain't it the truth!

[sexy365]

A WOMAN SHOULD ALWAYS BE RESPECTED, ESPECIALLY A BLACK WOMAN.

[Common Sense]

LiL kim is supporting her self and alot of others fools riding on her coat-tails.

Plus, I'm not sure if we really know what's real in her life and what's for show business to make money.

[sexy365]

Black N proud

[jerzeechick1]

FOR A BLACK WOMAN TO GET ON T.V. AND STRIP AS FAR AS SHE IS ALLOWED ID WRONG. THEN SHE WANTS TO BE RESPECTED. I AIN'T HATIN BUT HELL YOU TALKIN BOUT MONEY! THIS JUST GOES TO SHOE YOU THAT SHE'LL DO SOME THANGS FOR SOME CHANGE.

lil kim likes to wear provocative clothes, does this mean she a h*e? when a chick wears a skirt or a shirt where you can c cleavage, does this mean she a h*e?
i thought a h*e is a person who fucc every body and/or sells her cat to any1 that has some change.
if im wrong let me know.

ciao

[omack]

I do my best to not refer to women as b***** and h**s. Even if they act like one, I'm not going to call them one.

[LcBwC]

I do my best to not refer to women as b***** and h**s. Even if they act like one, I'm not going to call them one.

I do my best in not calling femalez these names but i must say i too have fallen victim to using the words about general females. I refuse to call my lady "out of her name" but at the same time when i refer to females in general as this then i might as well call her one too. But i agree with OMacc i try not to use the words. its not positive in the blacc community. there is enough words putting "our people" down.

[Conman]

If a woman is your boss and is on your case everyday "that report is wrong, your were 3-minutes late to work, your desk is sloppy" what will you call her????

If you find out your girl who gives you the pus everynight and claims she is cummin everytime you are with her, is fuccin her ex-man, one of your homies and a neighbor on the block, WHAT IS SHE???

There is always a situation where these words are appropriate.

But like I said before.......I seem to run across waaaaaaaaaaaay more men that are behaving, walking, talking, and living their life like straight BI-TChes.

[sexy365]

LETS ALL BE REALISTIC. KIM JUST DON'T SHOW A LITTLE CLEAVAGE SHE HAS SHOWN EVERYTHING. NOT TO MENTION THE ABORTION SHE HAS HAD. LOOK AT ALL THE WOMEN WHO HAS EARNED MONEY AND DIDN'T HAVE TO SHOW THEIR BREAST FOR IT. IT KIND OF MAKES YOU WONDER ABOUT ALL THE THINGS SHE DIDN'T HAVE TO DO , BUT CHOOSE TO DO TO EARN MONEY. AND WHAT MAKES IT SO BAD. SHE IS THE ONLY WOMEN I SEE WHO GETS ON T.V AND SHOWS EVERY THING BUT HAS YET TO HAVE A #1 MOVIE OR# 1 CD. HELL IF YOU GONNA DO ALL THAT ATLEAST BE #1.

[lewis503]

Why is it only black women? So is it ok to call a latino or a white girl a bitch or a hoe? And yes if a female is acting like a bitch or hoe then im gunna let them kno.

[Common Sense]

Here is a quick question?????

Question for the males on the string......


If you were acting less than stellar, and a woman called you a derogatory that she felt fit your behavior.....you would be pissed?


Ya see...I believe if we go there with derogatory name calling, we invite unnecessary confrontation, which somtimes end up in unnecessary jail time.


Some women may act like H*** all day long, but that's there problem..not yours. Then again we don't know what their baggage is, obviously it's something going on to even warrant that type of attention. There's nothing wrong with being mercyful sometime.

[Anonymous20]

"people on the planet are children of Father and Mother Africa. And if we share the same mother and father, then surely we are all brothers and sisters. "

[Anonymous20]

ooops hehe wrong thread

[Red_Diamond]

Well it aint a big deal unless a nicca say it . Me and dawgs use the term B**** and hoe all the time....we be like b***** stop trippin etc.... etc... thats just how we talk its funny that if a nicca call me out my name I'll lose it, but be fa real saying Bye Hoe to ya dawg and a nicca saying F*** u Hoe is two different things

[Common Sense]

Really? I think when we start getting used to using derogatory names as terms of endearment, we are taking steps backwards. In a sense, we are giving permission to be downgraded.

It's only a matter of time before others start calling black women b's and hoez's.

It teaches the young girls they are not as worthy as other women.

[ChAoS]

I treats a Bit*h like Bit*h and a woman like a queen=p)

[Red_Diamond]

I feel you Common Sense

[Individual]

Why did it have to be black women??

i call all girls bitches n hoes..

and it aint the street and homie or music influence..

its my own experiences and seeing how each and every one of them are bitches n hos..they're scanless

[Red_Diamond]

fool you just said some Messed up s*** all women aint the same thats like saying all niccas are doggs but I aint cause there are some good ones out there

[Common Sense]

Why did it have to be black women??

Your right, this could apply to all women, but for sake of this thread, it was named black women, since that's where most of this abuse is aimed toward.

i call all girls women n hoes..

So you don't have respect for women? Respect for your mother, aunts, grandmother????? etc.

and it aint the street and homie or music influence..

You don't need to be from this, to have no respect for women.

its my own experiences and seeing how each and every one of them are women n hos..they're scanless

This could be true, but I would have to give you the benefit of the doubt, that you don't have too much experience with women.
heck...you may even have a daughter one day.

[B.M.W-Soldier]

All races call females bitches and hoes why pick one out and target that one this post should be why do people refer to women as bitches and hoes because every color calls women of their race and outside their race bitch and hoe

[Common Sense]

All races call females women and hoes why pick one out and target that one this post should be why do people refer to women as women and hoes because every color calls women of their race and outside their race bitch and hoe

Not on the scale like black women. Black women has been referred as B's and H's so much that is has almost become commercial.

I have never heard a Jewish man call a Jewish female a B or a Hoe.