Interracial Dating or Marriage

These concepts are socially constructed and have been given much weight. What are your thoughts?

Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby MICK » September 30th, 2004, 7:49 pm

If you love someone, who cares? love is blind.
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Lonewolf » September 30th, 2004, 7:56 pm

In attempting to continue to uphold tradition and culture as well as maybe even the racial nationality of your people, would you still look down upon someone whom would be opposed to you marrying into the family but not being of the same nationality, race, color, or faith and hold it against them ?
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby MICK » September 30th, 2004, 8:05 pm

no. not at all. thats a different situation than what i thought the question was. I can understand that.
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby J-DUB » September 30th, 2004, 8:09 pm

I THINK BLACK MALES SHOULD DO TO WHITE FEMALES, WHAT WHITE PEOPLE BEEN DOIN TO BLACK FOR YEARS. F*CK EM LMAO. J/P I REALLY DONT HAVE A PROBLEM with IT, BUT ITS NOT SOMETHING I WOULD DO.
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby J-DUB » September 30th, 2004, 8:09 pm

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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Lonewolf » September 30th, 2004, 8:23 pm

Well the question has repeatedly come up as to why per say a Mexican family would trip if their daughter has a black boyfriend.
I f you were to ask the Black Man, he would say its just plain racism.
I have tried to point out of some of my feels from the Mexican side that point differently, but to no avail.
I don't doubt that there is race involved at the bottom of it all, but just what kind of racism - superior in race and mind - or racism in difference of culture and ways about going about everything in life ?
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Common Sense » November 6th, 2004, 4:25 pm

Has anyone ended a relationship because it was too hard to handle (race wise)?
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Cold Bear » November 7th, 2004, 1:10 pm

I've dated Mexican, Asian, Black, and White. The one that was the hardest race-wise was White. I always felt she had some kind of power-trip going on. Had to end. A month into it I couldn't stand her ass.
The least problems I get are with Mexican and Asian, although relations with families are complicated. I dated a half Cuban/ half Dominican girl out here in NYC, and that ended quick cause culturally I'm more LA than NY and I couldn't keep up with her crazy slang and tomboyishness. We just didn't click and some of that reason was culturally.
In terms of hating from other people that might be while dating a black girl, though the family part is easy.
Because I'm mixed every situation is interracial.
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Blasia » November 15th, 2004, 7:08 pm

Hey people, i am an South East Asian man married to a Black woman. We are in love and been together for over 3 years already. We are expecting a baby soon.

Why do people view such a relationship like ours as some kind of abomination?????

I mean we all bleed the same red blood right???

I recently visited her family in Trinidad and i saw basically every mixed "race" couple you can dream of like

; Black women w/Oriental men and vice versa, East Indian men w/Black women and vice versa, East Indian women with Oriental men and vice versa plus,
Descendants of the White Slave masters dating all different girls/guys.

Back in Canada and the U.S people make such a BIG DEAL based on your pigmentation and ethnic background.
Why do people here cause conflict over culture/religion/and race????
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Common Sense » November 15th, 2004, 8:00 pm

Those Trini's are beautiful.
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby fistfullofboomstick » November 15th, 2004, 8:46 pm

descendants of slave masters eh? me being white, do i fit in that category?
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Lonewolf » November 15th, 2004, 9:00 pm

Anybody remembers Thomas Jefferson THE SLAVE MASTER ?
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Cold Bear » November 16th, 2004, 9:50 am

I was about to say that there never was any slavery in Canada, so you're home free. But then I did a search on Canadian Slavery, and wooow, you Canadians are f'd up, bro. Lol
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby fistfullofboomstick » November 16th, 2004, 8:11 pm

i was only sayin slave master shit cuz the guy there is clearly racist to whites and is like blah blah blah down with racism
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Cold Bear » November 17th, 2004, 8:46 am

Whenever you get people that have been colonized by white people (South East Asians) together with people that have been enslaved by white people (Blacks) there is going to be some discussion about white people. Trinidad and the West Indies in general have a history of Coolies and Slaves. Indians, Chinese, and Africans all were brought to the islands for forced or indentured labor by white people. You still see the products of these people mixing today.

It could be true that the white people on Trinidad are directly linked to white slave masters, the direct descendents. Unlike in the US where there are white immigrants like Slavs, Irish, and Italians etc. who never owned slaves so can't realistically be tied to that. Institutionalized racism maybe, but not slavery itself.
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Common Sense » November 17th, 2004, 10:20 am

Most progressive countries there is interracial dating and marriage. Trinidad and other caribbean countries eventhough small are on the way to this idea more and more. Tourism probably has alot to do with this. Having multinational people visit throughout the year.
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Blasia » November 18th, 2004, 2:52 pm

Hey guys, who turns you on more??

Amerie or Kelis or Naimo Campbell? all three are part Oriental/Black.

And for the gay guys, which guys turn you on more
= Sean Paul or Tiger Woods (both mixed also with Black/Oriental)
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Anonymous20 » November 18th, 2004, 3:20 pm

i had never heard of her before but i checked up n i gotta say Amerie!
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby WhiteBoy » November 18th, 2004, 8:31 pm

what about black and white gays?? they mix all the time...
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby fistfullofboomstick » November 18th, 2004, 8:35 pm

whats with all the gay talk on the site lately
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Lonewolf » November 18th, 2004, 8:37 pm

DUN'NO, MUST BE THE IONIZATION IN THE AIR THIS TIME OF YEAR OR SOMETHIN'
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby fistfullofboomstick » November 18th, 2004, 8:39 pm

i find it wierd
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Common Sense » November 18th, 2004, 8:47 pm

It's a silent major part of society.
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Lonewolf » November 18th, 2004, 8:53 pm

Well keep it silent and out of my society is all I got to say, this is supposed to be a GANGSTER site, how is someone gonna come up here and go the wrong route and throw a left hook sidetracking the issues ?

"IT AIN'T RIGHT & IT AIN'T NATURAL"
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Chris. » November 18th, 2004, 8:59 pm

lonewolf wrote:Well keep it silent and out of my society is all I got to say, this is supposed to be a GANGSTER site, how is someone gonna come up here and go the wrong route and throw a left hook sidetracking the issues ?

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WhiteBoy wrote:what about black and white gays?? they mix all the time...


Lol, lonewolf yall mean to tell me yall just realizing the turn towards gayness, fraud, and busterism now? It happened when Alonso got ban-happy and started bannin niggas with the quicness...censorin words and actin gay...yall should tell me if yall actually learn somethin new on this site...The V.ip section is full of questions from gay outta towners and wannabes
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Lonewolf » November 19th, 2004, 7:51 pm

Dang, AY CHINGADO Señor Side, you came out swinging putazos no doubt about it.

I guess it depends as to what it is you want out of this site.

For instance O/G/B MADD RONALD posted some info on WS ALCAPONE, info that came good to me because in all my years in the streets, I did not know the exact answer until I read what he posted.

Then you have someone like "epun" who's got down ass good feedback from his side of town in San Diego.

Then you have Homies like BIGG LISTO who's been all over the planet like I have, and has corrected me in many things.

You have people like Common Sense that shows you what the other side of the coin thinks like, and man-o-man it's scary.

Then you have those that know "nada" but keep most of the threads going until some REAL G's come on the topics.

You had the ones that got banned, a lot of them for net-banging, which to me on the personal level was not neccessary but then again I did not care for a lot of the cagada being posted and you couldn't go into a topic without someone commin' down on you with their fists up.

All of the above is what is expected in a site like this, but that "PUTO" sh*t just don't fly - PERIOD.
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Chris. » November 19th, 2004, 8:10 pm

lonewolf wrote:Dang, AY CHINGADO Señor Side, you came out swinging putazos no doubt about it.

I guess it depends as to what it is you want out of this site.

For instance O/G/B MADD RONALD posted some info on WS ALCAPONE, info that came good to me because in all my years in the streets, I did not know the exact answer until I read what he posted.

Then you have someone like "epun" who's got down ass good feedback from his side of town in San Diego.

Then you have Homies like BIGG LISTO who's been all over the planet like I have, and has corrected me in many things.

You have people like Common Sense that shows you what the other side of the coin thinks like, and man-o-man it's scary.

Then you have those that know "nada" but keep most of the threads going until some REAL G's come on the topics.

You had the ones that got banned, a lot of them for net-banging, which to me on the personal level was not neccessary but then again I did not care for a lot of the cagada being posted and you couldn't go into a topic without someone commin' down on you with their fists up.

All of the above is what is expected in a site like this, but that "PUTO" sh*t just don't fly - PERIOD.


Lol Cuzz...Puto?
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Lonewolf » November 19th, 2004, 8:13 pm

Well I had to put it in the Native Language, I'm sure most real people understand what it means.
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby PolarAC » November 24th, 2004, 1:21 pm

Does anybody notice how interracial couples tend to produce beautiful offspring?

Huh....

Now I am not a religious man, but maybe God is trying to tell us something
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Common Sense » November 24th, 2004, 1:30 pm

^^^Even if they are both ugly too.
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby Common Sense » November 24th, 2004, 1:33 pm

Sometimes african descent with eastern asian descent makes an interesting offspring.
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Re: Interracial Dating or Marriage

Postby PolarAC » November 24th, 2004, 1:38 pm

Common Sense wrote:Sometimes african descent with eastern asian descent makes an interesting offspring.



Definately,

You see quite a bit of that in Jamaica, Since there are a number of Chinese there as well
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